When I’m writing to a friend on her work account and after sending, gmail encourages me to invite her to gmail, I get so eye-rollingly annoyed.  It’s like when my parents encourage me to call up this family friend they’re trying to set me up with on a Sunday morning and invite him over for bagels.  Both situations make me want to shout, “This just isn’t how it works!  And why do I have to explain how impossible this is to you?”  I’m pretty sure that my friend who works in the Senate isn’t going to change her work e-mail over to a gmail account and even more sure that calling a single 30-year-old man at 8:15 on a Sunday morning with the offer of smoked fish won’t lead to romance.  Sheesh, you guys.